We can not change the things of the past. As children, we have not chosen what family we were born into or lived with. Some of us ended up with a healthy family and grew up loved. Others grew up in an environment where we struggled to survive, and love was twisted and warped. We can have a good childhood, but one event can change our perspective and path.
Nomatter what journey we have traveled from being a child to adult there is one event in our life that can totally change things for us. That event is when we meet the son of our creator. Jesus came down in person and gave His own life to open the door that was shut a long time ago. This door is where we enter to meet our creator, our heavenly Father, Daddy God, whatever you want to call Him. From the beginning of time, He has wanted to be with us. It broke His heart when Adam and Eve disobeyed and turned their back on Him. They made a choice that totally changed the path for the human race.
When we reach the age of accountability that is when our choices count. Some choices don’t amount to much, but others can change our whole world.
These words spake Jesus, and lifted up his eyes to heaven, and said, Father, the hour is come; glorify thy Son, that thy Son also may glorify thee: as thou hast given him power over all flesh, that he should give eternal life to as many as thou hast given him. And this is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent.
John 17:1-3 KJV
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